Mending a broken relationship can be very stressful and frustrating, especially if the parties involved are not really committed to resolving their differences. If a relationship is broken and there is a need to mend and restore it.
One must first sit down and find out what really happened and why they broke up. Asking these questions will help to know how to go about a resolution and the process to follow to mend the relationship.
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Scriptures: Proverbs 17:9, Matthew 18:15
Mending and restoring a broken relationship requires prayers and some other processes that must be followed according to the scriptures. Some of these processes include;
Be sure that both parties are committed to resolving their differences and move forward. John 15:13. First of all, get your partner committed to resolving the matter before any other thing.
Humility. There should be no pride when trying to resolve an issue in a broken relationship; else it will ruin the whole process. Proverbs 6:3. Humble yourself before your partner and let your partner see that you are truly committed to ending the problem between you two.
Don’t rush it. Psalm 27:14. Never rush the process, keep making the attempt and keep the pace, watch the improvements, no matter how little and keep working at it. Never rush your partner to let go, give it time and space and all will end in praise.
Ask for forgiveness and grant forgiveness. Matthew 6:14-15. Do not hesitate to ask for forgives when the need arises and always be ready to forgive your partner when they call for it. In fact, forgive before proceeding to mend and restore your relationship. This will give you a clear mind when discussing, so you don’t have to feel being offended.
Keep the rules of communication. Ephesian 4:15. There are rules of communication that should be kept when in the process of mending and restoring relationships. These include;
Be honest; speak the truth to your partner in love, remember shouting will not make it right or true. Ephesian 4:26-27
Keep current; resolve the nagging issues today and don’t bring them back up tomorrow once they are resolved. Ephesians 4:29-30.
Attack the problem, not the person: take care to speak kindly to one another even if they are at fault. Let your words be directed to the problem at hand and not the person who has done it, that shows a commitment to end the problem and not the person. Proverbs 10:13-19.
Act, don’t react; take definite actions that resolve the problem and not to react over it by nagging or insults. This will prove that you understand that we are prone to mistakes, and you are committed to helping them be corrected and avoided next time.
Mending and restoring a broken relationship is just like a garden left for a long time. Hard work is required to get the garden back to its original state. It requires constant commitment, cultivation, humility, time, forgiving, and proper communication to mend it back and restore it to a more glorious relationship. I pray that you will mend and restore that your broken relationship today.
Prayers to Restore your broken relationship
Lord Jesus, I thank you for the gift of life and for making it possible for me to see today, it is all by thy mercy and compassion, I thank you for the gift of relationship and companionship, for the closeness and love it shares and the joy it brings, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, I pray for pardon from all my sins and I ask that your mercy overshadow me, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, I come to today with my broken relationship as an issue of concern, grant me grace as I pray to mend it and restore it, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, let every issue of concern in this relationship that caused it to ail be supernaturally settled by mighty power in the name of Jesus.
Every role of satanic and demonic influence in my broken relationship, I command such influence to ceasefire in Jesus’ Name.
All forms of hostility, inconsideration, selfishness, and self-centeredness in my relationship, I command them to turn to Kindness and generosity in Jesus’ name.
Lord Jesus, I come against every manipulative power and force over me and my partner causing brokeness in our relationship to be destroyed in Jesus’ name.
Lord Jesus, I command every spirit of pride and egotism that is at work in this relationship to leave right now and let this relationship be restored, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, give us the grace to let go of past offenses and be willing to mend our relationship, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, let every spirit that has caused trouble in this relationship be consumed by the fire of the Holy Ghost, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, let every agent of the devil resisting and frustrating every effort to settle and restore this relationship meet with the judgment of God, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, by your power, let every friend or relative who is fanning the coals of discord against the mending and restoration of this relationship be exposed and meet the anger of God, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, I pray that whatever might have caused the problem that led to this relationship to break, I ask the Spirit of the Lord to supernaturally settle it and restore this relationship, in the mighty name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, endow the both of us involved in this with the spirit of forgiveness, to forgive each other and be willing and committed to mending our ailing relationship, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, let your angels come and intervene in the affairs of this relationship and restore calmness and warmth, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, whatever keeps reminding me of the past and making it difficult for me to let go, let the spirit of the Lord set me free from the grip and memory of the past; as you have said in your word in Isaiah 43: 19 that you will do a new thing Lord I ask that you do a new thing in my family in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, I come against whatever might have caused this breakup, I pray that it would never arise again to scatter us, as the scriptures say in Nahum 1:9 “What do ye imagine against the LORD? he will make an utter end: affliction shall not rise up the second time.” I claim this for my relationship in Jesus’ Name.
Lord Jesus, let this cause of this breakup make us stronger on love and bond, and may no thought of breakup ever cross our mind again, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, by your word of restoration, I command every broken part of this relationship to be mended and restored right now, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, by the authority of your word, I command every power of darkness standing against the restoration of this relationship because of the blessings therein to flee by fire, in the name of Jesus.
Lord Jesus, I decree and declare that the redeeming blood of Jesus restores my broken relationship with my partner in Jesus’ Name.
Father Lord, I ask that you give me and my partner the wisdom to always do the right; constantly considering the need of each other in Jesus’ name.
Lord Jesus, I ask that you bring peace and a gentle mind for a peaceful resolve where there is conflict in Jesus’ name.
Father Lord, the amazing way you restore mankind to yourself epitomize you as a God of reconciliation, I, therefore, put forth my broken relationship to you, restore it Jesus’ name.
Father Lord, grant to me and partner the spirit of tranquility and grace to live in harmony with each other in Jesus’ name.
Strengthen our prayer life, our family altar, let the fire of the Holy Ghost burn down every work of the flash that’s continuously causing issues in my relationship in Jesus name.
Lord Jesus, Sanctify me and my partner by your blood, purge us and cleanse our hearts in Jesus’ name.
Lord Jesus, I thank you for mending, settling, and restoring this relationship to the glory of your name, in the name of Jesus.
Prayer When hurt in Relationship
Lord Jesus, I am currently broken at heart and feeling hurt and disappointed as a result of this relationship, I ask that you give me the courage to brace myself up again, and to make amends where it’s needed so that this ailing relationship can be healed in Jesus’s name.
Father Lord, I pray that you grant me wisdom and understanding to be able to address this issue and resolve it amicably to your glory in Jesus’ name.
Lord Jesus, You’re the God with an unspeakable understanding, I ask they you shine your light on my path, reveal all I need to know so my relationship can be restored in Jesus’ name.